Dates
An overview of dating on this wiki, plus one mindset worth keeping before any date.
Don't compete with other guys
Going into a date, one of two things is true: she's into you, or she isn't.
- If she isn't, nothing you do about another man will change it.
- If she is, the other man isn't a threat.
Seduction isn't about fighting off rivals. The moment you start competing with another guy, you're already losing. Think of it as a team sport: if she's playing with you, there's no room for him.
Before the date
- Get her number and set it up: Approaching To Getting HER Number, Post Phone Number Text.
- Plan the date yourself, somewhere easy to talk with a second spot nearby: General Date Setup and Execution Guide for Newbies.
- Online? See Online Dating and Survival Guide For Online Dating.
On the date
- Lead, be playful, touch early and naturally: How to Touch a Women.
- Read her interest: Indicators of Interest.
- Handle her tests with humour: Common Shit Tests.
After the date
- Follow up: Post First Date Texts.
- If she's lukewarm, apply The Brad Pitt Rule and Fuck Yes or No.
See also
Opening section adapted from a forum comment; overview written for this wiki.