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A collection of studies, articles and videos that are often cited in Red Pill and dating discussions, sorted by topic. Each entry has a one-line summary of what the source says. Many links are from 2010–2014 and some may no longer work. Where a link is dead, the Wayback Machine often has a copy. Studies vary a lot in quality, so read the original before relying on a statistic.
Violence
- CDC study via SAVE Services: reports that in one year more men than women were victims of physical partner violence and psychological aggression.
- MD Connects (2014): study presented at a conference finding women more likely to be verbally and physically aggressive toward partners.
- Video: public service ad about violence against men.
- Video: social experiment on how bystanders react to violence against men in public.
- Image links: 1, 2, 3
Fidelity and cheating
- Social Pathology blog: chart linking more premarital partners with higher divorce risk.
- HuffPost (2014): cites survey data suggesting women's infidelity rose in the previous 20 years; men said their own cheating was mostly emotional, not sexual.
- Soto Nation: study of 4,000 people who cheated, reporting women had more secret partners and started younger.
- HuffPost (2014): men rate sexual affairs as worse; women rate emotional affairs as worse, and each forgives the other kind more easily.
- New York Post (2003): one researcher's interviews with unfaithful wives, most of whom reported little guilt.
- Daily Mail: psychologist argues women cheat nearly as often as men but hide it better; cites paternity-mismatch estimates.
- Daily Mail (2014): study linking fewer premarital partners with higher marital satisfaction for women, but not for men.
- Daily Mail: history piece on relationships between French women and occupying soldiers in WWII.
Honesty and sexual history
- The Scotsman: survey where most women admitted lying to partners.
- BBC: survey on women's attitudes to honesty, money and relationships.
- New Scientist: women reported more sexual partners when they believed they were on a lie detector; men's answers barely changed.
- The Guardian (2003): comment piece on how the "acceptable" number of partners women report has crept up over the decades.
- Daily Mail (2014): student survey where some women lowered and some men raised their reported partner count.
- MetaFilter: discussion thread about doubting people's accounts.
- Brian Banks case: a man exonerated after a false accusation. Also: image on false accusations, female sex offenders site.
Behaviour and psychology
- Norah Vincent: a woman who lived 18 months disguised as a man talks about what she learned (book: Self-Made Man).
- "Women are wonderful" effect (Wikipedia): research finding people rate women more positively than men in general.
- Rudman & Goodwin (2004): women showed automatic in-group bias toward women; men showed no equivalent bias toward men.
- Video: research that men find caring, responsive women more attractive.
- Psychology Today (2014): men report love at first sight more often, say "I love you" first more often, and are in some ways the more romantic sex.
- Metro and SFGate (2014): survey claiming about half of married women have a "backup" partner in mind.
- New York Times (2013), Baumeister & Twenge (2002), Vaillancourt (2013) and LiveScience: research suggesting women, more than men, police other women's sexuality, and that indirect aggression (gossip, put-downs) is a main way women compete.
- Fox News (2011): biological differences in tear glands help explain why women cry more readily.
- BBC: study suggesting the chemistry of early romantic love fades within about a year.
- Globe and Mail: Margaret Wente on how aging affects women's and men's dating prospects differently.
- PsyBlog (2013): brain-imaging study on differences in male and female brain wiring.
- Vagabondish: a foreign woman's mixed feelings about getting less attention in Japan.
- Image link
Online dating
- Jon Millward's experiment: over four months, fake women's profiles got about 20 times more messages than men's, mostly going to the two best-looking women.
- OkCupid blog: how much looks drive messages on a dating site.
- Video: a male model's experience getting hundreds of matches on Tinder.
- MGTOW blog: post on the odds men face in online dating.
- See also Online Dating and Survival Guide For Online Dating.
Divorce
- People: Mel Gibson's divorce settlement.
- NY Daily News: record $4.8 billion divorce award against a Russian billionaire.
- Forbes (2010): study finding breadwinner wives were more likely to divorce.
- New York Times (2005): rising, mostly women-initiated divorce in China.
- Yahoo News: rising divorce in India.
- Daily Mail: stay-at-home husbands being left by high-earning wives.
- Divorce Corp clip on alimony; video on the limits of prenups.
- Image links: who files for divorce, chart
Money and work
- Industry statistics compiled by Jamie Dunham: women make or influence most household purchases (homes, cars, healthcare, travel, food).
- Video: on the most dangerous jobs, which are mostly done by men.
- UTSA (2014): research on how ovulation affects women's economic decisions.
- Forbes (2014): childless women in their 20s out-earn men in some cities.
- Vohs et al. (2013): women disliked sexual imagery in ads for cheap products, but not for expensive ones.
- ScienceDaily (2014): nearly 40% of women with engineering degrees leave or never enter the field, often citing workplace climate.
- CTV: estimated cost of a relationship. Image link.
- Forbes (2014): argument that the gender pay gap mostly reflects choices, not discrimination.
- Wall Street Journal (2014): women are more successful than men at crowdfunding.
Sex and mating
- NYT TierneyLab (2007): Roy Baumeister's point that historically far more women than men had children.
- RealClearScience: the classic Clark & Hatfield study. Most men accepted a stranger's offer of sex; no women did.
- Video and video: street experiments asking strangers for sex.
- news.com.au: survey of 2,000 young women on partners, cheating and attitudes to sex.
- Video on the "alpha fux, beta bux" idea.
What women find attractive
- Word cloud: words men and women use most on social media.
- Evolutionary Psychology: how a husband's self-esteem affects how he tries to keep his partner.
- Scientific American, Psychologies, Jonason & Kavanagh (2010): "dark triad" traits (narcissism, manipulation, callousness) are linked to more short-term dating success.
- Pornhub Insights and HuffPost (2014): submission themes are common in women's fantasies.
- Trends in Ecology & Evolution and Medill: women's preferences shift toward more masculine men around ovulation.
- Barking Up the Wrong Tree: more masculine faces are seen as both more attractive and more dangerous.
- Barking Up the Wrong Tree: unusual, intense or emotional situations increase attraction.
- Barking Up the Wrong Tree: "benevolent sexist" men (protective, chivalrous) were rated most likeable.
- Pacific Standard: men find a caring, understanding partner attractive; women much less so.
- NPR (2014): Beijing experiment where women accepted a ride from a man in a Lamborghini but not in a cheap SUV.
- The Week: round-up of findings: playing hard to get works, narcissists are attractive at first sight, and looks versus status preferences hold across cultures and ages.
- Barking Up the Wrong Tree: research that agreeable, modest men had fewer sexual partners.
- See also Indicators of Interest and What does a woman want?.
Height
- Heightism Report, screenshots on height preferences, and video of a short man being heckled in New York.
Intellect
- APA study: men and women score similarly in maths on average, with more men at the very top end.
- FIDE top 100 chess ratings.
Society and law
- Return of Kings and Return of Kings: articles, the second summarising Warren Farrell's The Myth of Male Power.
- Businessweek (2014): women dislike having female bosses more than men do.
- Starr (2012): women get much shorter sentences than men for the same offences and are more likely to avoid charges.
- Psychology Today (2014): Warren Farrell on men's shorter lives, suicide rates, workplace deaths and the draft.
- RealSexism.com: list of statistics on areas where men are disadvantaged.
Fatherless homes
- The Fatherless Generation: statistics on outcomes for children without fathers.
- The Atlantic (2013): single-parent households have more than tripled as a share of US households since 1960.
- Image links: 1, 2
See also
This section collects Red Pill writing for discussion; inclusion isn't endorsement.