What does a woman want?
A Red Pill take on women's motivations. The aim isn't to cater to her every wish, but to understand what drives attraction so you can lead instead of react.
Eight things she wants, according to the author
- To feel good. Emotion drives much of what she says and does: moving away from pain and toward pleasure. Her words can seem contradictory while the feeling behind them is clear.
- To look good. Social standing among other women matters a lot to her.
- To fall in love. She craves the rush of attraction and chemistry. The author's cynical twist: it's the feeling she loves, and the man is the way to get it.
- A bit of a struggle. She wants a capable man and the story of winning him: romance with twists and turns, not a sure thing.
- To be seduced. To escape routine into excitement, mentally and physically.
- Passion. A confident man who takes the lead in the bedroom, so she can let go.
- To win. The lifestyle, the commitment, a man other women envy, while often keeping an eye out for something better.
- Security. Ultimately, to lock things down.
How to use it
Don't try to deliver all this by bending to her. Lead, keep things exciting, and stay the prize. Anticipate rather than accommodate. See Becoming the Man Women Pursue and Building Frame.
See also
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