Make Any Girl Sexually Attracted

Ten tips for turning ordinary attraction into sexual attraction, whether she's a friend, a classmate or someone you've just met. The author's advice: take action, but don't put pressure on yourself or on her. Some women have strong inhibitions; respect them, and give things time.

The ten tips

Show your passion. Be ambitious and excited about your life, your hobbies and your ideas. Women notice the spark in your eyes when you talk about what you love.
Show interest, gradually. She needs to know you exist, but too much romantic interest too soon creates pressure. Ideally attraction grows from enjoying each other's company. A genuine compliment on something physical you like, followed by carrying on the playful conversation, shows you're attracted without making it heavy.
Make sexual topics comfortable. Don't be shy about flirty or sexual conversation. In the author's example, a funny-shaped object in a café sparked a laugh and a flirtatious conversation.
Frame her as the one trying to attract you. When she arrives, compliment her outfit or perfume, playfully, as if she made the effort for you.
Qualify her. Point out a specific quality you genuinely like: creative, adventurous, funny. Add playful mock-compliments ("Wow, you're really good at drinking water"). See The Qualification Manifesto.
Plan the date. Lead. Choose somewhere close to your place and make the date fun for you. If you're having a good time, she probably will too.
Touch. Physical contact builds comfort and excitement for both of you. Take the initiative, and read her response.
Invite her back. Keep it simple: "Come to my place." Make sure your place is clean. A messy flat undermines her comfort.
Escalate verbally. Move gradually from light questions (past relationships) to more intimate ones, matched to her comfort and the mood.
Take your time. Don't rush. Things moving slowly once you're alone is normal; enjoy it.

Everything here depends on her being comfortable and willing at each step. If she hesitates or holds back, slow down or stop. Pushing past a "not yet" isn't seduction.

The ten tips

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