Kokology Games
Kokology ("the study of the self") comes from a series of Japanese personality-quiz books: imaginative "what would you do?" scenarios whose answers are said to reveal something hidden about you. In seduction circles, a few of them were adapted as playful conversation games with a flirtatious "meaning" revealed at the end.
They're for fun, not psychology. Their value is in getting her imagining, describing feelings and laughing, which builds rapport. Read the mood before revealing a cheeky interpretation.
Roller coaster
Ask her to picture a day at an amusement park:
- How long are you willing to queue for the big roller coaster?
- What does the ride feel like?
- The car splashes into the pool at the end. What do you shout?
- Next you try the merry-go-round, but your horse is broken. How do you feel?
- Describe your perfect roller coaster.
The reveal: each answer is said to mirror her attitude to intimacy, from how much build-up she likes to her ideal experience. Some note it pairs well with Ross Jeffries' patterns (see Ross Jeffries).
The spider's web
- You're a spider with a web. What insects have you caught, and how many?
- One escapes and says something as it leaves. What does it say?
The reveal: the catch represents her past partners; the escapee's words are her feelings about the one that got away.
Skydiving
- You're waiting on the ground for your first jump, watching others fall. What are you thinking?
- Now you're at the plane's open door and jump. What do you scream?
- You land and the instructor walks over. What does he say?
The reveal: anticipation, release, and what she imagines a partner saying afterwards.
See also
Adapted from scenarios in the "Kokology" quiz books, as passed around in seduction forums.