Sexual Frame

How to get laid?

Obviously this is the question TRP seeks to answer, among others. The answer is obviously mufti-faceted, but one of the obvious requirements is that the woman is sexually attracted to you.

What goes into sexual attraction besides your physical appearance?

We all know to lift weights to improve your body and give yourself the best chance to be attractive.

But what about the other aspects of getting laid?

These are Logistics (setting up the situation to be conducive to comfort/escalation/sex).

There are many field reports and tips on game about how to set up logistics and how to escalate, but I would like to talk about Frame (how you define/present yourself to women with the goal of sex).

Frame

Basically, you want to get to the point where how you choose to define yourself is how women see you. In other words, women will have no choice but to view you however you want to be seen. In this case, it's to be seen as "sexual".

When you offer only one version of yourself and you frame it strongly, assertively, aggressively, and consistently, then women really have no choice but to accept it (or leave). Thus, when you define yourself as a sexual man who requires sex whenever you date/hangout, she will have no choice but to engage you on that or not engage you at all.

What does this accomplish? Why is this better than "building comfort" and then escalating slowly?

1) It cuts down on the amount of women wasting your time or just trying to use you as a validation-vending machine or beta orbiter.

2) It eliminates women viewing you as a chump (you will be called an "asshole" for being uncompromising, but uncompromising > chump). In other words, you want sex, so don't compromise on it. Compromising for the mere sake of being "agreeable" will end up with you being an orbiter in the long run.

3) It does more than just "eliminate" bad eggs (#1 & 2). It also actively increases chances of success.

When faced with an unknown choice (sex vs no sex), women will gravitate by default to the "safe" option to maintain their health/status. However, women also exhibit the feminine trait in which they rationalize/hamster anything that is strong, consistent, and powerful as de facto sexually attractive.

In other words, it doesn't matter if a guy eats pork, drinks, & is non-religious (Me)...plenty of muslim girls will rationalize it away and have had sex with me because they measured me up and determined that what I was offering was enticing, satisfying, attractive, and genuine. When something is "genuine", it is by nature unchanging/uncompromising. Women are attracted to that (a solid frame) and abhor the opposite (playing the nice, considerate, accommodating guy and then trying to get sex later).

The point is that women will view whatever you present to her as sufficiently attractive as long as what you are presenting is alpha/sexual/strong/not vacillating, etc. By doing this, the work required to "escalate" (logistics, location, what to say, etc) will be significantly decreased because your frame does a lot of the work already.

4) In addition to #3 (which involves gaining a new sexual partner), holding a sexual frame can help you maintain a current sexual partner.

All relationships go bad when the woman finds the "ceiling" to her man's SMV or starts viewing him as a non-sexual or domesticated being. This is why people joke about marriage = death of sex life. It's very hard to maintain a constant sexual frame when there are times you simply don't have time/energy for sex, in which case you let her refusal go and it builds up.

Ask yourself, why should a woman give sex to a man who doesn't demand it? Why give sex to a man who compromises and repeatedly demonstrates that he can be simply denied and accepts "I'm tired..."? (even though she had enough energy to text her birkam yoga teacher, Rafael?)

That is why maintaining a sexual frame will do future work for you. It will prevent problems before they even start. An ounce of prevention is worth a pound of cure, as they say.

As an example, this works wonders over text in the context of online dating and travel buddy websites. Many times before I have gotten girls to expect lap dances, naked showers, oil massages, grind dancing, etc ALL before even meeting me (but you can say this stuff on the first date in person too). I tell them I walk around naked in my house and do pole dances. They laugh about it and think it's so funny. That right there tells me I'm gonna get laid because I've shown I'm the type of guy she can go through her "crazy early 20s phase" with.

On the other hand, you can be sure that if I "suggested" or "asked for consent" after having some lame coffee the first time we met, she'd slap me in the face.

'Eww! You're like forcing women to have sex with you! That's manipulation

On the contrary, it's honesty. I can't hide what is in my nature.

Second, women have the choice not to have sex with me (duh) and they can act on that. No one is making a girl stay at my place and having sex with me instead of going home like she claimed she would 10 min ago...but they continue to do so over and over again. I can easily call her a cab and she can be on her way if she wanted. But we all know that's not what they're really seeking.

They don't leave because they are shit-testing and making sure that having sex is secure, enticing, and most importantly, not a compromise of her value (because for women, associating with any man of low value indirectly lowers her own value in her mind).

TL;DR

Escalation to sex can be significantly made easier by presenting a sexual frame that is uncompromising, because you're not really "escalating" to it anymore. Many pitfalls and last minute resistance occur when a guy who is seen as non-sexual suddenly tries to make himself sexual; it is unbelievable and abhorrent to women.