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<p>Created page with &quot;-statements make educated guesses and are far more engaging -effective language = speaking with fewest words possible while still maintaining your meaning and intent -women...&quot;</p> <p><b>New page</b></p><div>-statements make educated guesses and are far more engaging<br /> <br /> -effective language = speaking with fewest words possible while still maintaining your meaning and intent<br /> <br /> -women do not see features they see how you present yourself<br /> <br /> -women do not hear words they hear your intentions<br /> <br /> -talk louder, then louder than that<br /> <br /> -always make people break eye contact with you before you break it with them<br /> <br /> -when engaging in conversation, suppress the urge until its your turn (one-up-ing)<br /> <br /> -lean back<br /> <br /> -do not lean forward<br /> <br /> -watch others<br /> <br /> -do not put head down<br /> <br /> -pause, relax and slow down<br /> <br /> -do not laugh at things you do not find funny<br /> <br /> -take up more space<br /> <br /> -stop approval seeking<br /> <br /> -my boundary/frame is established, eg. “I value honesty, curiosity, education, intelligence and authenticity, etc.”<br /> <br /> -keep your approval, keep your power<br /> <br /> -project self-image and beliefs<br /> <br /> -honest signals to practice<br /> <br /> -do not stare, moral looking time<br /> <br /> -dominant and confident posture and walk<br /> <br /> -slower than usual movements and gestures<br /> <br /> -be conscious of your body language until it becomes unconscious<br /> <br /> -allow her to orient her body to you<br /> <br /> -tone of voice, “hey what up”<br /> <br /> -rub a girls back while hugging, do not pat<br /> <br /> -physical escalation<br /> <br /> -eye contact<br /> <br /> -verbal contact<br /> <br /> -hand to arm<br /> <br /> -hand to shoulder<br /> <br /> -shoulder to hip<br /> <br /> -hip to leg<br /> <br /> -face to face<br /> <br /> -mouth to mouth<br /> <br /> -things to talk about<br /> <br /> -F.O.R.D (good things to talk about)<br /> <br /> -Family, Occupation, Recreation and Dreams<br /> <br /> -R.A.P.E (would not recommend using these as talking points)<br /> <br /> -Religion, Abortion, Politics and Economics<br /> <br /> -the inflection of your voice, do your statements sound like questions?<br /> <br /> -be aware of the strength you finish your sentences with, some people trail off when they do not think others are listening<br /> <br /> -ignore her beauty<br /> <br /> -keep your eyes at normal resting size, if not a little bit tighter than usual<br /> <br /> -while making eye contact do not over focus on one eye, move back and forth, find your rhythm - EDIT May 11 2014 - Since writing this I have noticed when moving back and forth it can come off as reactive, attention seeking and needy, use with caution<br /> <br /> -soften your gaze to the point you can comfortably see both eyes without focusing on either one<br /> <br /> -smile big with your whole face, like you just saw your best friend for the first time in a year<br /> <br /> -breath from your belly<br /> <br /> -before an act or action we need oxygen as fuel<br /> <br /> -draw air into the bottom portion of your lungs before the chest muscles expand and draw further air into the upper portion -funny shit-test responses to “do you play video games?”<br /> <br /> -“no I use mature media modules”<br /> <br /> -“no I dabble in adult entertainment simulations”<br /> <br /> -quotes -“No persons time, attention or companionship is more valuable than your own.”<br /> <br /> -“You cannot allow your ego to become attracted to receiving specific reactions and responses from people.”<br /> <br /> -“What you make yourself to be is a choice. What happens to you as a result of what you are, is not.”<br /> <br /> -“Whatever it is you are feeling is a perfect reflection of what is in the process of becoming.”<br /> <br /> -“Confidence is the reward for being Courageous.”<br /> <br /> -“Men have approach anxiety and women have last-minute-resistance anxiety.”<br /> <br /> -have preferences to create your identity<br /> <br /> -if a guy is looking your girl up-and-down<br /> <br /> -“Chief, eyes on your own paper.”<br /> <br /> -keep moving on, but preserve what works</div>

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